[you fit into me]
you fit into me
like a hook into an eye
a fish hook
an open eye
Notes
What happens when the person who fits you perfectly is also the one who hurts you? Margaret Atwood's [you fit into me] begins with the familiar promise of romantic compatibility, only to overturn it through the brutal image of a fish hook entering an eye. Four lines are enough to turn affection into something frightening. The fantasy of perfect union contains an inherent contradiction: to eliminate the distance between two subjects is also to threaten their autonomy. Atwood exposes the violence concealed within the desire for absolute intimacy, where the beloved becomes an object to be possessed rather than an independent consciousness to be encountered. October's decay begins with this corruption of tenderness. Love need not disappear for a relationship to deteriorate; sometimes it survives as the very language through which possession and cruelty become acceptable. #MargaretAtwood #PoetryCommunity #CanadianLiterature #FeministLiterature #ToxicRelationships
Margaret Atwood, "[you fit into me]" from Selected Poems 1965-1975. Copyright © 1976 by Margaret Atwood.